Wednesday, 28 August 2013

News that Age will bust out of hospital soon!

Yep - its true.  News on the street is that as soon as next week, Age will be busting out of hospital and let loose amongst the wildlife... or something like that!

Its been a little while since I updated the blog about Adrian's progress - for the simple fact that there hasn't been any significant news of changes.  He undertakes strenuous physio and OT every day for up to four hours a day, which leaves him absolutely exhausted mentally and physically.

I know he gets a little despondent about his perceived lack of progress, and though it is small, I see and hear the improvement every time we connect. Friends and loved ones are asked to hold him strong - especially now.

Tonight, when we spoke, I think it was the clearest and most concise I have heard him formulate sentences and ideas for a long time.

He still has a long journey in front of him, but with the love and support of those around him, it will be baby steps towards his recovery.

This is an old photo - but one I forgo to post up at the time. Morgan loves checkers and chess - so is more than happy to play with Dad to pass the time.



Friday, 23 August 2013

The kids message to daddy

As Age is not able to read well, or respond to texts or email, I thought we might send him some short videos from time to time, of the kids messages of support and love. They had videoed lots and sent to him already.

Here is one today.. though I think I might need to remind them they are on video.. and have something to say!! At least you can see its off the cuff and unscripted!




Thursday, 15 August 2013

Age Progress Report

Although Adrian progresses every day, sometimes he can't see or feel it. So if you can, please call him or visit to encourage and support this monumental journey he is undertaking.

I told him that the Camino was a gentle walk in a park compared to what he is facing now. Everyday the OT, speechy and physios put him through gruelling and exhaustive activities. He is normally completely wrecked physically and emotionally in the afternoons.

His speech is so much clearer and he is able to string complex words into sentences. So proud of his tenacity.

Adrian told me he was feeling dejected and frustrated with his ability to comprehend simple lists of instructions as he forgets or get confused easily. So when you visit or speak to him, be gentle.

We both know his recovery will be lengthy and possible through the love and support from those who care about him deeply. 

The kids and I are returning to Dalveen for a while as our house sitting job in Gympie has finished. Heartbreakingly, with a 7 hour( one way) road trip from Dalveen to Cooroy, we won't be seeing him much for a while.

I am in no headspace to plan anything further than a day or so ahead and am unwilling to commit to anything at the moment... So as weird as it is for miss spreadsheet planner.... I have no plans. I refuse to commit to anything.

I grabbed a shot of Age and the kids yesterday. You'll see how well he looks! I keep joking his arm brace needs to be made from leather and have studs in it!